How families are offering hope for houseless students
By Silvia Smart
On Aug. 1, 2025, my husband Jeff and I welcomed high school student Ariella into our home through Ecumenical Ministries of Oregon’s Second Home program. This began an important new chapter for Ariella, marked by stability, independence and connection. Before this transition, Ariella had been experiencing homelessness, making the move not just as a change of address but a profound turning point in her life.
For Ariella, having a place to call her own has been transformative. One of her favorite parts of the transition has been having her own space—a comfortable bedroom and a cozy bed where she can wake up at her own pace instead of rushing out each morning.
The consistency of a stable home has allowed her to focus on daily routines and personal goals in ways that were previously difficult. She especially appreciates having her own bathroom, a simple but meaningful comfort that gives her privacy and a stronger sense of independence. Living close to work has also reduced stress and helped her establish a more balanced and reliable routine.
For Jeff, welcoming Ariella into our home has brought new life to a space that had gone largely unused. He enjoys seeing that part of the house occupied and appreciated, and he finds real meaning in watching Ariella navigate life after graduating from high school. As she faces the challenges that come with early adulthood, Jeff values witnessing her resilience, determination and growth as she builds confidence and charts her
path forward.
I have embraced Ariella’s presence just as warmly. With our own children grown and living independently, having a young person in the home again feels special. I love Ariella’s personality and the positive energy she brings into everyday life. I have always enjoyed supporting young people, and sharing a home with Ariella has created a renewed sense of connection and purpose.
Like any shared living arrangement, our household has experienced a few challenges along the way. What has made the difference, however, is a shared commitment to communication and respect. When difficulties arose, we were able to talk things through and learn from one another, strengthening trust and understanding. Second Home played an important role throughout the process with the team providing guidance from the very beginning and continuing to offer support during moments that were more challenging, helping us navigate the experience with patience and confidence.
Even Bellybutton, our family dog, has gained a devoted companion. Ariella takes Bellybutton on daily walks, giving the dog time outdoors in the fresh air while also creating a grounding daily routine for herself. These walks have become a meaningful part of the household rhythm and a reminder of how small routines can build stability and well-being.
One of Ariella’s biggest life changes has been discovering how much she enjoys cooking. With access to a kitchen and the freedom to experiment, she now spends time preparing meals and trying new recipes—something she finds both creative and comforting.
The home has also become a place where she can invite friends over, an opportunity she rarely had before. Being able to host friends has helped her build community and experience a sense of belonging that comes from having a stable and welcoming space.
Together, the household has grown into a supportive environment where everyone benefits. Ariella has gained safety, independence and the opportunity to move forward with confidence, while Jeff and I enjoy the renewed energy and connection her presence brings.
What began as an opening in a home has become a shared experience of resilience, generosity and new beginnings—a reminder of how stability, support and community can change the course of a life.
Silvia Smart is the owner and head instructor for Naga Martial Arts & Self Defense. She holds a master’s degree in education with a focus on special needs. She is certified by the National Women’s Martial Arts Federation and serves as an empowerment self defense instructor.
